How to Prevent Gadget Attachment in Kids
Parents see the positive impact of gadgets on their children as a good source of learning and entertainment. However, the prevalence of gadget attachment in kids compels parents to be more cautious and mindful.
The excessive use of gadgets among children made many parents worry. Their early exposure to technology contributed to speech and language delay, learning problems, health problems, childhood depression and character development.
Furthermore, children who are heavily dependent on gadgets are more prone to poor sleep and obesity. It turns out that children prefer to spend hours and hours on their gadgets than go outside to play and exercise. Others tend to drink sugary beverages or eat more whenever they are using television or their smartphones.
Tips on How to Prevent Gadget attachment in Kids
Parents are always torn on how to manage their children’s screen time. Gadgets are already a necessity for many kids to keep them entertained and happy. Some parents feel guilty when they forbid their kids from using their gadgets. Others remain adamant about implementing rules over gadget usage.
Set a limit to their screen time.
At an early age, accustom your children to limited screen time. No matter what gadget they are using, whether it is a smartphone or a laptop, or a television, they are only allowed a certain number of hours. You can let them choose what time of the day they want to use their gadgets. Experts recommend limiting screen time to two hours a day. For children ages 3 to 5, one hour of screen time is a good guideline.
Do outdoor activities together.
Gadget attachment prevents children from seeing the joy and fun of playing outside. Parents should find ways to engage their children to go out. You do not have to go to fancy and expensive spots. You can allot one hour or two every Saturday to go out to have a picnic, to go biking, jogging or just walking around your neighborhood. It promotes quality time with your kids and at the same time lets them experience outdoor activities.
Children are all creative but gadget attachment hinders them from developing. Some children emulate arts and crafts tutorials from Internet videos. Others show their creative side through dancing, singing, acting and video editing. Some children who learn to play piano and guitar by watching Youtube videos. Support your children and encourage them to display their creativity even without the use of gadgets.
Lead by example.
Children do not always listen to your advice and nag but they only imitate your actions. When you constantly reprimand your children to limit gadget use but you are always on your phone, they will not obey you. Be a good role model because even adults are at risk of gadget attachment.
Maintain tech-free zones at home.
Many households are now adapting to this strategy in preventing gadget attachment in kids. You can assign your dining area as a gadget-free zone. This means that you and all other family members are not allowed to use any type of gadgets whenever they are in the dining area. You can also set a fixed time of the day when everybody cannot use their phones. For example, dinner time should only be for conversations and not for gadget use.
Nurture your relationship with your kids.
Many parents use gadgets to pacify their children. When children are throwing tantrums, parents are likely to hand out a smartphone or a tablet to quiet them. If this happens more often, children rely on gadgets to stay still. Be more present and encouraging with your children. Spend more time with them and create a strong bond that will give comfort and security.
Teach self-care to your children.
One downside of gadget attachment in kids is they disregard the importance of having a healthy body and mind. Their eating and sleeping habits are affected. They do not exercise regularly. Emphasize to your children that they must learn to respect and love their bodies.
Educate your children about the correct use of technology.
Technology promotes convenience and comfort but it should not be abused. Your children have to know that technology should be used in moderation. It is there to make your life easier but it should not be the source of false information, bullying and violence.
Encourage face-to-face conversations.
Gadget attachment in kids disrupts their longing to be with other children. It is alarming to know that there are children who do not know how to initiate conversations with others. They are clueless about how to start and what to say. Your children must be able to have meaningful talks with others. They should be confident in expressing their own opinion and thoughts with respect.
Be strict with your rules.
Children can be manipulators especially when they know that their parents can be easily persuaded to give in to their whims. As a parent, you must know when to act as a responsible adult and as a friend. Emphasize to your children that your rules are there to be obeyed and followed. Do not feel guilty when your children cry whenever they cannot use their gadgets.
Recent studies show that gadget attachment can lead to mental health problems such as depression and anxiety. The excessive use of gadgets can have detrimental effects on children. If your child’s gadget attachment is causing problems you need to consult a medical professional for intervention.
Mindshift Psychological Services is a highly recommended place for therapy and counseling sessions. Our qualified and well-trained professionals are here to guide and help you manage and address gadget attachment in your kids. Visit our website to know more about us. You may also contact us at (714)584-9700.